For a long time the photograph to the right has been one of my signature shots. It was taken in 2007 by me using a timed flash. It’s still the shot for my Wikipedia user page.
I took it during a shoot with Governor Jim McGreevey that remains a sentimental favorite of mine. His was one of my best portraits for Wikipedia. Jim now attends the General Theological Seminary and alsoconducts a former prisoner ministry in Harlem.
But that photo of me above was 2007, and since it’s 2010 I started to think it was a lie. When does a photograph become dated enough to become deceitful? It’s a real question in the Internet age.
I’ve often heard people reason that they don’t update photographs swearing that they look exactly as they did four years ago. But does anyone ever? Regardless, if one looks the same there should be no trouble going through the routine motion of uploading a recent shot to quell any doubt.
What’s the rule for when you should change your profile shot?
If it’s a favorite photo, you should update it once the year is +2; so for the 2006 shot above, I should have changed it in 2008. That’s the rule. Anyone who does less is shady (I have many, many recent shots uploaded so that’s not an indictment on me).
So since you have to update your profile shot, try to make it special. It’s like buying a new coat: put thought into what will be one of you most highly visible symbols. For me, there was no better time to do my overdue signature shot than this trip last weekend to Washington DC.
My sisters and I have often talked about and tried to do a vacation together just the three of us, but they both have multiple children and important careers, so time and other considerations often frustrated our attempts.
It was on Wednesday that Tracy wrote Cheryl and I that she was suddenly going to DC for a conference, and could we possibly make it down that weekend. Cheryl and I were so enthused at the chance, that we both within hours had arranged to get Friday off and take the train down. It spun all our heads.
It was the sort of weekend that reminds you of why family is so wonderful. We took a leisurely pace, focusing on dining, shopping and seeing two things: the Lincoln Memorial and Washington Monument. Nothing else.
It was fantastic, and we reaffirmed that our love extends beyond family ties and into friendship. It is difficult to articulate how blessed I feel to have Tracy and Cheryl.
Below is the new shot for the “About David Shankbone” page. It was taken during a particularly special family vacation by my sister Tracy, and I’m as happy as can be:












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