I took this early in my photography, on Valentine’s Day, February 14, 2007, two months before I bought my Olympus. It’s the stage that is shared by both the New York City Ballet and the New York City Opera. I had a cheap Panasonic, but a guy who I had fallen in love with once offered to show me around because he had access to what was then the New York State Theater. I didn’t want to waste the opportunity, so I used what I had, but it still came out decent enough. I believe this is my one and only panoramic shot.
Man, I had to go to the ballet a lot when we dated, because he had been a ballet dancer and I thought I should give it a try but after two I was burned out. Nobody can tell me I don’t have a right not to like Balanchine, as it was his anniversary season so every show was Balanchine. I’m sure he’s great, but I learned ballet is not my thing. Particularly as I associated it with this guy.
Two years before on Valentine’s Day, 2005, was one of the most miserable moments of my life, and he had a good bit to do with it; that and MacroCat prematurely dying on that day as law school exams loomed.
I hadn’t spoken to him for over a year after he left to work in Europe, and in that time I had finally forgiven him for the lies and betrayals, forgiven him enough that I pined for that in-love feeling I had felt. We tried to make a go of it again for about a month, but whatever we had was lost. Worse, discovering new indiscretions and trying to remember what I had even seen in him cheapened what had been a proud bittersweet memory.
The photo I took that day of a ballerina working with her coach in the empty theater is used on 143 pages on 31 Wikimedia projects around the world.




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Great picture.. Sad story.
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Oh, I don’t know if I think of it as a sad story.